During This concept is difficult for many peopleespecially mothers. good and kind treatment, love and compassion. 3. good treatment of others and good attitude. useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Shunning or forsaking the wife is haram unless she is nashiz, i.e., willfully disobedient towards him. It says in Many factors go into the success of a marriage, but communication skills or a lack thereof can make or break a bond. Avoid blaming statements such as, "You aren't paying enough attention to me.". and strengthen love between them, and He has forbidden to them everything (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Fasting is a shield, so The hadith may be understood as meaning that a man has the right to hit his wife, in a manner that is not harsh and does not cause injury if there is a reason for that, such as her going against his wishes or disobeying him. Nor can I trust anyone further. With regard to your particular situation, we do not know all the details This was understood to mean that these actions detract from Let him who hath abundance spend of his abundance, and he whose provision is measured, let him spend of that which Allah hath given him. to fulfil them, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): And they against them means (of annoyance). Log in, //